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\nNevaloji (https:\/\/nevalogy.com) kendi d\u00fcnyama sizler i\u00e7in a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir kap\u0131. Ne facebook\u2019a benziyor ne de gazete k\u00f6\u015fe yaz\u0131lar\u0131ma. Yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmaktan korkmuyorum burada. Kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7an girer, dinler, be\u011fenir kal\u0131r, ya da bir daha geri d\u00f6nmeksizin kap\u0131y\u0131 vurup \u00e7\u0131kar… \u2018Can\u0131n\u0131z isterse\u2019 tarz\u0131ndaki \u00e7i\u011f bir takmazl\u0131k de\u011fil bu, yanl\u0131\u015f anlamay\u0131n. Tam tersine her kap\u0131m\u0131 \u00e7alan\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131n \u00fczerinde yeri var. Lakin unutmay\u0131n ki ho\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek \u00e7abas\u0131yla a\u00e7\u0131lmad\u0131 bu sayfa. Kendi do\u011frular\u0131m\u0131 yazmak payla\u015fmak i\u00e7in buraday\u0131m, alk\u0131\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z s\u00fcsl\u00fc laflar\u0131 dizdirmek i\u00e7in de\u011fil. Birlikte oturup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim, konular\u0131 masaya yat\u0131r\u0131p irdeleyelim, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z darac\u0131k kutulardan \u00e7\u0131kal\u0131m iste\u011findeyim. K\u0131sacas\u0131 dertle\u015fme platformu buras\u0131. Dertle\u015firken \u2018a\u011flarsam makyaj\u0131m bozulur\u2019 ya da \u2018erkekler a\u011flamaz, a\u011flarsam karizmam zedelenir\u2019 diye kayg\u0131lan\u0131yorsan\u0131z kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki do\u011fru adam, bulundu\u011funuz yer do\u011fru adres de\u011fildir zaten. Bazen d\u00f6v\u00fcne d\u00f6v\u00fcne a\u011flayas\u0131 gelir insan\u0131n bazen de g\u00fclerken Denizli horozu gibi nefessiz kal\u0131p bay\u0131las\u0131… S\u0131n\u0131r getirmeden y\u00fcre\u011fini a\u00e7acaks\u0131n ki ruhun rahatlas\u0131n. \u0130\u015fte buras\u0131 \u00f6ylesine a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bir k\u00f6\u015fe. Benim i\u00e7in, hepimiz i\u00e7in… Bu y\u00fczden l\u00fctfen samimi olun, yorum yaz\u0131n, tart\u0131\u015f\u0131n korkusuzca… Yeterki sayg\u0131y\u0131 katletmeyin.<\/p>\n
2017\u2019de bol bol bilim yazmaya kararl\u0131y\u0131m. Yeni haberler, sa\u011fl\u0131k \u00f6nerileri, ya\u015fam kalitesini art\u0131racak tavsiyeler daha neler neler… Bir ton da s\u00fcrprizler var kafamda. 2016\u2019n\u0131n \u015fu son birka\u00e7 payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131nda biraz \u00fclkemizde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fclerden dolay\u0131 sizlerle sohbette istedi\u011fim k\u0131vam\u0131 yakalayamad\u0131m. Hepimiz yorgunuz zira. Ter\u00f6r, ekonomik sars\u0131nt\u0131lar, politik gerilimler… Herkes b\u0131kk\u0131n, herkes huzura hasret. Yaz\u0131lanlar da pek ayd\u0131nl\u0131k olam\u0131yor do\u011fal olarak.<\/p>\n
Bu haftaki \u2018huzuru davet eden \u015fey huzurun katili olabilir mi?\u2019 ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 da pek \u2018\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 bir ba\u015fl\u0131k\u2019 de\u011fil fark\u0131nday\u0131m. Fakat biraz d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrsek s\u00f6yledi\u011fimin ger\u00e7ekleri yans\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn. Bug\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z huzursuzluklar\u0131n bir\u00e7o\u011funun ard\u0131nda bir zamanlar \u2018huzur getirece\u011fini sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z fakt\u00f6rler\u2019 var. Sevdi\u011fi insan\u0131 senelerce bekleyip vakti geldi\u011finde nikah masas\u0131na oturup, daha bir y\u0131l\u0131 deviremeden h\u00fcsranla sonu\u00e7lanan evlilikler, bebek sahibi olmak i\u00e7in yan\u0131p tutu\u015fan ailelerin bebeklerine kavu\u015ftuklar\u0131 andan itibaren ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131 gereken sorumlulu\u011fu kald\u0131ramamlar\u0131ndan kaynaklanan \u2018h\u0131r g\u00fcr\u2019, hayali kurulan bir i\u015fte, konumda ya da mekanda son bulup tahmin edilemeyen baz\u0131 ger\u00e7eklerle y\u00fczle\u015fmenin verdi\u011fi beklenmedik \u015fok buna verilebilecek binlerce \u00f6rnekten sadece birka\u00e7 tanesi. Bir de i\u00e7 huzuru olu\u015fturan maneviyat vard\u0131r. Bu dini bir inan\u0131\u015f da olabilir, kendince hayat\u0131n anlam\u0131na (ya da anlams\u0131z\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na) getirilen bir a\u00e7\u0131klama da… Daha hi\u00e7bir\u015feye akl\u0131 ermez iken aile ve toplum taraf\u0131ndan verilenler, ya\u015fam boyunca atlat\u0131lan badireler, d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z co\u011frafik konum bu konudaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri yo\u011furur, \u015fekillendirir ve \u2018pi\u015firir\u2019. Mesela farkl\u0131 dini inan\u0131\u015flardaki bebek bekleyen iki aile do\u011fum i\u00e7in ayn\u0131 anda ayn\u0131 hastaneye gitseler, ayn\u0131 anda do\u011fan bebekler kazara kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131p yanl\u0131\u015f ebeveynlere teslim edilseler. Bebekler verildikleri ailelerinin dinlerinde e\u011fitilerek b\u00fcy\u00fcyecekler. Hatta b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcklerinde farkl\u0131 dinde olduklar\u0131 i\u00e7in belki de biribirlerinden nefret edecekler. Her ikisi de asl\u0131nda nefret ettikleri dindeki ailenin \u00f6z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 oldu\u011funu bilmeden ya\u015flan\u0131p bu d\u00fcnyadan da g\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcp gidecekler. Bu i\u015f bu kadar basit! Bu ger\u00e7ek farkl\u0131 mezhep, renk ve (hatta) ideoloji i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir.<\/p>\n
Bilimsel olarak \u00e7ok \u00e7arp\u0131c\u0131 oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in s\u0131kl\u0131kla sordu\u011fumuz bir soru vard\u0131r: \u2018\u0130nsano\u011flunun en b\u00fcy\u00fck katili nedir? Yan\u0131tlar genelde: trafik kazalar\u0131, sava\u015f ve ter\u00f6r olarak say\u0131l\u0131r. Oysa istatistiki bulgulara g\u00f6re do\u011fru yan\u0131t: kalp rahats\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131d\u0131r. Bug\u00fcnlerde insanlar\u0131 en \u00e7ok \u00f6ld\u00fcren sebebin kalp hastal\u0131klar\u0131 de\u011fil i\u00e7lerindeki kin ve nefret oldu\u011funa karar verdim \u015fahsen. Son derece huzur vermesi gereken manevi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve inan\u0131\u015flar kendininkinden farkl\u0131 ise \u2018kin ve nefret tohumlar\u0131 at\u0131l\u0131yor, bu tohumlar d\u0131\u015fardan gelen te\u015fviklerle ye\u015fererek, o kahrolas\u0131 egoyla birle\u015ferek bir canavara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor, huzur katlediliyor, insanl\u0131k can \u00e7eki\u015fiyor.<\/p>\n
Bazen Hz. Mevlana gibi bir bilge g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde ya\u015fasayd\u0131 bu sanc\u0131l\u0131 d\u00fcnya i\u00e7in ne s\u00f6ylerdi diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum… San\u0131r\u0131m g\u00f6zlemleri sonucunda s\u0131k\u0131\u015fan y\u00fcre\u011fiyle: \u2018Ne yaz\u0131k… T\u00fcm insanl\u0131k olarak yarad\u0131lan\u0131 yaradandan \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc ya da evrensel bazda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek sadece insanlar\u0131 de\u011fil ya\u015fayan her canl\u0131y\u0131 sevmeyi becerememi\u015fsiniz. \u00dcstelik huzur verecek doneleri bile silah etmi\u015fsiniz. Bilgisizlerin \u2018biliyorum\u2019 dedi\u011fi, haks\u0131zlar\u0131n hak iddia etti\u011fi bir d\u00f6neme girilmi\u015f. \u00d6nce kendinizi bulun ki sonra Hak yolunu bulas\u0131n\u0131z\u2019 derdi…<\/p>\n
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Nevaloji (https:\/\/nevalogy.com) kendi d\u00fcnyama sizler i\u00e7in a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir kap\u0131. Ne facebook\u2019a benziyor ne de gazete k\u00f6\u015fe yaz\u0131lar\u0131ma. Yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lmaktan korkmuyorum burada. Kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7an girer, dinler, be\u011fenir kal\u0131r, ya da bir daha geri d\u00f6nmeksizin kap\u0131y\u0131...<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":38,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-260","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-turkce"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/nevalogy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shutterstock_385980013.jpg?fit=700%2C700&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nevalogy.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/260","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nevalogy.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nevalogy.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nevalogy.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nevalogy.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=260"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/nevalogy.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/260\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":273,"href":"https:\/\/nevalogy.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/260\/revisions\/273"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nevalogy.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nevalogy.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=260"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nevalogy.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=260"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nevalogy.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=260"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}